Relationships are like plants, they cannot survive on their own. So what are the most important things in a Relationship?
They need care, nurturing, and love of two persons giving to each other in a way that they build a beneficial connection.
Of course, there will be hard times to muddle through; your behavior will be the beacon of light of your life. Also, the responsibilities should not fall on one person; it should be a group effort.
If you are in love and think that your love is enough to get you from any situation, think over! There are other important aspects too, that will foster your relationship in the long run.
There will be arguments and things that will hurt you, but being prepared beforehand for such situations will not affect your relationship.
Here’s the compiled list of the things you need to do to make your relationship happy and successful in the long run:
Communication:
Communication is the key to any relationship; you have to express everything (words, expectations, feelings) to stay happy and healthy.
Also, healthy communication easily resolves conflicts and helps you iron-out the most difficult situations.
Trust:
Trust can make or break your relationship; it’s the strength of any strong, successful, and healthy relationship. Without trust, you spend your life with the gut-twisting that your partner is hiding something from you.
However, by staying honest, girls can make a guy want you. Plus, you will give your partner no reason to not trust you.
Further, building trust is something you need to work upon to make it better with time. You can lack in trust, especially at the beginning, but that doesn’t mean you should end things.
Trust needs time, give your relationship that time, and you will have a healthy and strong bond with your partner.
Respect:
Of course, you don’t need to sound cliché, but there’s no amount of love that is worth giving your self-worth.
Being in love doesn’t mean disrespect and abuse; you should be respectful toward your partner. In short, there’s no love and relationship without respect, appreciation, and value of another person’s emotion and decisions.
So, respect your partner and pick words that won’t hurt. Be willing to compromise on things, show considerations, and be protective toward your partner.
Also, make sure your partner is respecting you, know your worth, is acting honorably and is also setting and upholding boundaries.
Personal Safety:
Do you feel safe in your relationship? Do you dread from your partner asking about things he/she don’t like? Do you feel uncomfortable when sharing things, thinking your partner will get offended and might hit you?
Well, it simply indicates that you are not safe in your relationship.
No matter how much you love the person and how hard it is for you to step back, it won’t make your partner stop abusing.
Your love will not save you from the injury or death. In fact, no love and attachment are worth your happiness and life.
Forgiveness:
Nothing is perfect; people make an effort to make things special and perfect. And to make things work smoothly, you need to learn the importance of forgiveness.
Of course, there are few things that are unavoidable and unforgivable, but you can neglect most of the unnecessary things.
This will make your relationship healthy and happy. Sometimes, all you need is ‘I forgive you’ or ‘I’m sorry’ to save your relationship.
Emotional Support And Strength:
Tears make you look weak, men don’t cry and what’s not, is just words with no real sense and no relation to practicality. Everyone has emotions, and since most people hold them for most of their time, these emotions will boil.
So, if this is with your partner, offer them emotional support.
Whether they are shedding tears for losing someone special, or it’s because of happiness show the emotional support to your partner and let them know that you are with them, no matter what.
Independence:
You should not feel bound in any relationship. If you are not free to do what you love, what you want to do, to share your thoughts, you are not free in your relationship.
of course, you should discuss things with your partner and include them in your decisions, but you should also free to make your decision.
If you feel like you have to ask everything and take permission, think over about your healthy relationship!
Every relationship struggle, but the couple who makes an effort to maintain the love, get through it.
So these are the most important things in love and Relationship.
